Ever wonder why: You’re being passed over for promotions? Your team members aren’t more receptive to your ideas? You’re not asked to join special project teams or to spearhead new initiatives at work? Maybe your bad habits are holding you back. Nobody’s perfect, and we all have idiosyncrasies that occasionally make us challenging to work…
Read More“She’s so intelligent; I’ll never be as smart as her.” “He’s so creative; why can’t I think that way?” “She’s so disciplined; I wish I could exhibit that kind of control and perseverance.” Are you great at finding amazing qualities in your colleagues, family and friends – but incredibly tough on yourself? It’s human nature.…
Read MoreIf you’re on the job hunt, you’ve doubtless heard cautionary advice about revealing TMI during an interview: trashing a former boss discussing personal finances dishing about your love life Yikes – makes us cringe just thinking about it. But once you’ve landed the position, all bets are off – right? No way! To ensure your…
Read MoreIn any aspect of your life – your career, fitness, relationships, finances – success really boils down to two things: Doing the right things. Not doing the wrong things. While we’ve written extensively about doing the “right” things to become more successful (like this post on instilling healthy habits), that success won’t materialize if you…
Read MoreSure, you hear the words coming out of their mouths. But are you really listening to what employees and other managers are saying? Great listening behaviors enhance your ability to lead, motivate and perform, but it takes more than functioning ears to be an effective listener. If you’d like to improve your skills in this…
Read MoreGood morning! You woke up full of enthusiasm. You were determined to make a productive start and get a ton accomplished by 10:00 a.m. But then your keys weren’t where you left them. And a new construction zone made you 15 minutes late to work. And your Inbox was flooded with emails demanding your attention.…
Read MoreYou’re intelligent. Savvy. And an expert in your field. But could the words and phrases you use in everyday work conversations make you sound like Lloyd Christmas? Right or wrong, people judge you based on the way you converse, and a seemingly innocuous comment can easily be misinterpreted (and forever impact a co-worker’s perception of…
Read MoreYour co-worker just started her third year of crossfit training. Your cousin quit smoking for good in 2016. And that employee of yours? He’s already dropped 10 lbs. – and he only started dieting on January 1st! You’re outwardly happy for them (of course). But on the inside? Frankly, you’re kind of irritated – how…
Read MoreYou need to talk to your boss. Does the proposition excite you, or make you break out in a cold sweat? If you and your boss have vastly different communication styles, even the most mundane work conversations can be stressful. When you’re worried about how to phrase things properly, or how your boss will interpret…
Read More“The art of communication is the language of leadership.” –James Humes, author and former presidential speech-writer Clear communication – speaking, listening, writing, understanding and resolving conflict – is essential to building and maintaining a successful business. When you communicate with your staff effectively, you: Facilitate collaboration, teamwork and knowledge transfer Prevent unnecessary mistakes and misunderstandings…
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