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真相很伤人——但它会让你成为一个更好的人

真相很伤人——但它会让你成为一个更好的人

或者您是一只把头埋在沙子里的鸵鸟?

关于“面对事实”的习语有很多,这是有原因的:有时候,这真的真的很难做到!

但正如 Eric Barker 在最近的文章中敏锐地指出的那样,“4 个残酷的事实让你成为更好的人”,否认只是一种存在主义拖延的形式——忽视现实不会对你的个人生活或职业生涯带来好处。

值得庆幸的是,当你在适当的背景下看待“残酷的事实”时,面对它们会不那么痛苦。下面,我们总结了 Eric 文章中的一些要点,让你更容易摘下玫瑰色眼镜:

残酷的事实 #1:你将会死。

您知道这一点,但您在设定优先事项和计划活动时是否牢记这一点?不要因为最终会归于尘土而感到沮丧,而是将死亡作为动力。提醒自己,您一生中大约有 30,000 个早晨。充分利用每一个早晨。

残酷的事实 #2:任何值得做的事情都需要付出巨大的努力。

你想把什么事情做好?你想真正成为什么方面的专家?如果你想在某件事上取得优异成绩,你不能指望只投入时间;你必须投入“刻意练习”,这包括找出你的弱点,然后非常努力地克服它们。刻意练习有什么意想不到的好处?根据 Eric 的文章中引用的一项长达 80 年的研究,努力工作的人实际上寿命更长(这应该会让你对残酷的事实 #1 感到好受一点)。

残酷的事实 #3:你永远不会完全幸福。

你的大脑就是不具备这种能力!事实上,对幸福的期待非常强烈,但真正的快乐不会持久。这并不意味着你的生活会很糟糕;只是意味着你不应该期待无休止的幸福。与其追求完美的幸福,不如努力创造幸福的时刻。接受你的生活中也会有不完美、混乱和悲伤,你会努力克服这些,追求更多的幸福时光。

残酷的事实 #4:人们会让你失望。

一遍又一遍。这是否意味着你永远不应该相信别人?永远不要放松警惕,发展有意义的关系?永远不要依赖别人的帮助?不,不,不。这意味着你不应该让偶尔的失望动摇你对人性的信念。没有人是完美的,包括你。只要一段关系中的好处大于坏处,就专注于一个人给你带来的快乐,当他们让你失望时,原谅他们。

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